
This weekend, one of my best friends came to Madriz with his girlfriend: Hotel Design area such Chueca, a musical in the Gran Via, dinner for two at Teatriz ( Le Marquis was full), Drinking in Ramses ... I joined the coffee in the restaurant and gin & tonic of Hendrick 's price of Iranian caviar later. All very fashion and well.
But what happened later was a funny story: At around two-something my friend, who had barely slept in the last few nights, I wanted to return to the hotel. She, who usually go to a thousand and a half when it comes out, wanted to take another drink. It generated some "bad vibes " between them at that time. At the end brought them to the hotel in miserable conditions. I say unfortunate because I have a Audi TT and clear, the rear seat is great to leave the jacket or jersey that I wear on the shoulders ... but not for passengers, although this was only a trip to Puerta de Alcalá to San Bernardo. By the way, I would taken another, but it was I who had to decide, after all they were romantic weekend.
This again leads me to the same conclusion as usual. One conclusion to my 42-odd years (also a long beak) every time I have more clear: I'm single with no girlfriend, and every time gives me more lazy to have it. That live to justify to someone, that you keep an eye, that can not leave the hotel when you get the real winner (which is not a monarchy wins, but yours), that's when you have two couples (who is logical, otherwise), every time I get more per bag.
My last relationship more or less stable ended nearly two years ago. Previously I had had enough. Since then, only "relationships" of one night, two or three, tops. With a mentality like mine, it is not surprising, moreover, that women are getting tired of my passes in a season and see that nothing happens. I mean that nothing happens that I commit too. At first, a lot of travel, lots of dinner, lots of sex and lots of everything. But a few months (at best), I just overwhelming, growing tired, tired ... and bored. I can not find this cool intimate, and not take a second cup of coffee. And I just finished the story, or letting her finish it.
At my age, I'm increasingly less the work of putting up with anyone. Or to pretend that someone hold me. I have spent many years living alone, and I like it. I have my house as I want, and if I open the shower gel, nobody tells me anything (by the way: do not ever leave it open, I'm a jewel). I have my house does not mean that looks like a cave, on the contrary, my house is perfectly clean and tidy, changing sheets and duvet every week, wash the dishes and ventilate the house every morning. Nothing special, otherwise. But the truth is that yes, I used to not ask placet anyone to do what I want. I'm traveling (or rather, I was unemployed before the travel curb two years ago ...), but I'm coming to ski, I go, I go, I go on without explanation or anyone ... and what is better, but nobody asks for it. And even my mother (who banned me exhaustively long to submit to one more girl) insists that I have a girlfriend and got married. Or not get married, but at least has a girlfriend.
My friend, who has been in Madrid this weekend , took a long time without a stable relationship, and lived much quieter. Eye, I say to live better, more peaceful living say. I know that is very crush on his girl, and she. But calmer lived until a year ago, much less stressed that Now, a sinvivir . If you are compensated (I think it does), then congratulations, maybe we will be a year of a wedding these Donosti . That same friend dropped a phrase anthology years ago his then girlfriend to her question about what they would do in the Easter holidays, he replied "You do not know . I'm going skiing with Medinasidonia . " Awesome.
note about me: My two brothers are happily married with two each churumbeles years. Most of my friends too. And in general, they are all happily ever after ... but I do not quite see clearly that it is for me.
acknowledge that I can sometimes miss having someone. But are the least of them. I recognize that when a few weeks ago that the box of condoms that are on the table does not move except when I clean the dust (no second), I think it would be nice to have a partner. And I'm not saying just dusting (now second), but because it is true that when one thinks of a couple, will come to mind fond memories with ex-girlfriends. When you take a while thinking about it, then displayed the fights, the neuroses, problems, all the bad, the " is that you do not commit " ... and I say to myself, I'm super lonely.
I believe that those who walk through these years and we never have committed a certain amount of gin & tonic permanent blood as the vaccine immunizes us from the flu. He said an announcement
cookie years ago when at 42 a still single is because it is ugly or gay . I do not remember a story that said this to announce cookies, in my case neither of the two conditions is met. my ex-girlfriends and ex-rolls is proof of that. Indeed, the ad in question is before the legalization of gay marriage , of \u200b\u200bcourse.
I have a theory: Marriage is an institution that is thousands of years in time, ie when the life expectancy of humans was about 45 years at most. When you get married, that roll of "till death do you part" meant in the best fifteen or twenty years. But now, in Spain with a life expectancy of nearly eighty, it's together for life sixty years can make: Who holds it? Almost no one, so he invented the divorce as life expectancy began to grow.
For finish, I come here today to claim the single figure of , or mine. Do not be a single because it just gives you win real? Do I have an obligation to follow the script? Do I have mortgaged 30 years to buy a closet and live with someone who will not stand at a time (and probably not bear me to me)?